Although it’s because I told him to – Geoff linked to me from his work webpage. I tried to convince him to simply make his work webpage a redirect here, but he didn’t go for it.
So now if there are any category theorists who are also interested in Canadian literary fiction, they’ll know where to go.
I feel bad for the people who end up here while searching for the other Meghan Allen, who has appeared naked and is much more conventionally attractive than me. They must feel rather confused. So, to help them out, I will say You are in the wrong place. The only nakedness here involves sparseness of prose. Sorry.
Sunshine. Not the New Brunswick pale sunshine that is cold in the wind from the marsh, but sunshine from places where they paint their houses white. Waiting at the bus stop in Italy with the tiny strip of shade from the thin overhangs and having to squint to see then having the squinting feel tired and yawning like those dreams where you can’t open your eyes enough to do what you have to do.
That is what I want: to be in sun so bright that squinting tires me out.
Happy Thanksgiving.
I’m playing Plants Vs Zombies 2 on the iPad while waiting for Tesfa’s craft class to end.
Kid watching me over my shoulder: I didn’t know there were any grown-ups who played Plants Vs Zombies!
Me: To be fair, I’m a pretty lousy grown-up.
I don’t think he got the reference.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19oT0MrsnOM
We are in learning to read mode here.
Sort of.
Okay, maybe not really.
I am no help. I, somehow, taught myself to read. My parents assumed the school taught me. My school assumed my parents were working with me at home. Apparently great guffaws were had at a meet-the-teacher night when it was determined that neither of them had any influence on me at all. All that I know is that by the time I was Tesfa’s age I could read and since I have almost no memories of not being able to read, I am unclear as to what I should be doing to help Tesfa.
Kindergarten sent home a book yesterday. Tesfa is to know what sound S and T and A make by the end of the week. Firstly, awesome for picking letters in her name. Secondly, she knows that already. So school is a bit behind where she is right now. No help there either.
How did you learn to read? I ask Geoff. This is a waste of time. Geoff has something like four memories of his life before the age of eighteen, all of which involve candy. So Geoff is no help.
Why does my backpack say zoo on it? Tesfa asks.
Hey, I should out. You can read zoo! How exciting! Let’s read some more!
Tesfa stares at me and goes back to colouring her My Little Pony book.
Maybe phonics? My memory of phonics is a grade two poster which told me When two vowels go walking, the first one does the talking. Tesfa vaguely knows what a vowel is. They’re the red ones in the movable alphabet, except Montessori is over, a fact over which I cry about every day or so while Tesfa tells me We can always go visit. I told Miss Viktoriya I’d come visit. You can come visit with me. And Miss Viktoriya, on our last day of Montessori, told me that Tesfa is past the basic movable alphabet exercises. She has to learn to read.
I spend two hours while watching the worst, rape-culturey show in existence, How I Met Your Mother, making Montessori method phonics-style games. Match the picture, make a sentence, which words rhyme, etc. Tesfa plays with them under duress. Make a sentence works occasionally. We make one each day. Then we draw a picture. My bat gags is our best one yet.
It’s not reading if I don’t know it already Tesfa complains. I read cat because I know cat.
So, we’ll learn how to sound it out together, I tell her. What’s the first letter say?
I just want to colour, she tells me. And I know all the sounds. This is true. She does, except maybe getting caught up a few times on hard-versus-soft g or barely used letters like w.
I have a phonics book from Usborne. I read it all pointing at every word. Ted buys his red bed. Then I go again with Tesfa, sentence by sentence. I say a sentence and point to each word. Then Tesfa reads the same sentence. I make up a sentence that isn’t in the book. Tesfa holds the book open and “reads” it too.
Where does it say that? I ask her.
I said it because you said it.
But you’re supposed to read it.
Shrugs.
Later. Will you read me my book?
You know, if you learned to read, you could read it yourself.
Oh mommy, says Tesfa. Why would I want to do that?
Another year passed. Tesfa eagerly gave me a present yesterday morning:
Those who spent time with me in Costa Rica or Ethiopia may remember my love of these Dollarama clothespins, and no, I haven’t shut up about them. Even my four year old knows how much I love these clips.
A commendation to Geoff for taking a kid to Dollarama and getting out unscathed (and with only two additional suddenly necessary in a four year old’s mind purchases) and a commendation to me for knowing how awesome these clothespins are.
Mainly because they are famous and don’t know I exist:
Now, how to meet these people, convince them I am not a super-stalker, especially since I put there names on my blog as to how I need to make friends with them, make friends with them, and then feel smug about my new-found famous friends.
A year ago I quit my job and moved to the Maritimes where I now write. My situation is somewhat artificial – I have a partner with a job that pays twice the average salary of where we live, I have the ability to go back to my old job should the need, financial or personal, arise – but it’s still my situation of which to take advantage.
So I write more now. Maybe I’m getting better. Maybe the big break is around the corner soon. Or maybe, more likely, I’ll just keep going along slowly without any huge payoff, which doesn’t seem as disheartening as it would have ten, five, even one year ago. I think about the quietness of living here. There’s a beauty to toiling in obscurity, of having the privilege of toiling in obscurity that I hadn’t guessed before.
then why do I clear my cache/cookies every month once my ten free Globe and Mail articles are up so I can keep reading? I guess I either need to stop doing that or admit that I’m a hypocrite. Hmmm. I only ever read the book reviews, but still, I need to be a better person on this.
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